Book Review - Daddy, Come and Get Me

About the Book
Daddy, Come and Get Me: a dad’s adventure through a Guatemalan adoption tells two stories about one girl. Author Gil Michelini tells the story of how he led his family through the process of adopting a daughter from Guatemala. Using the official Guatemalan adoption documents and assistance by those familiar with the Guatemalan culture, Michelini includes a plausible story of his daughter’s life in Guatemala and how her birthmother came to the decision to relinquish her for adoption. This story is included to illustrate and honor the sacrifice one woman endured for the sake of her daughter.

The book title comes from a dream Michelini had at the beginning of the process where he heard a girl calling from a mountain top, “Daddy, come and get me.”

This is not a how-to book. It is a story of a man facing fears to accomplish a dream and answer a calling. It is a story to give insight to how much a mother would sacrifice for her child. It is a story to encourage others to consider opening their lives to an orphan.

Daddy, Come and Get Me is available as a softcover book and in the Kindle format from Amazon as well as the Nook format from Barnes and Noble and Books-A-Million. For additional information on Daddy, Come & Get Me, contact Gil Michelini or visit www.DaddyComeAndGetMe.com.

My Take on the Book
What I loved about this book was the fact that this comes from the fathers point of view. I have read and reviewed  other adoption stories that were shared from the mother-to-be's perspective but this is the first from a father-to-be. The book was refreshing and you can tell that it was written from the heart. I have to say that the story itself was amazing and you just feel for the whole family when you see everything that they went through in their journey.

The book itself was inspiring and I can see many people, and especially those considering adoption to read this with wide eyes and appreciation as it does open your eyes and mind to everything that is possible in the adoption process.

On top of all of this, this is a great example of fatherhood for all to emulate!

Be aware that this book does share a large amount of emotional ups and downs and you are taken along for the ride, but that being said it is a ride you will not want to miss!

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Book Review - Adoption Nation

About the BookFor generations, Americans have adopted more than 130,000 children annually from within the United States and from abroad. That means more than 100 million people in our country today have adoption in their immediate families – and nearly everyone is connected to this extraordinary, misunderstood, controversial, life-altering institution in some way.

Adoption Nation: How the Adoption Revolution is Transforming Our Families – and America (The Harvard Common Press, April 2011, 352 pages, ISBN 978-1-55832-716-0, $16.95 paperback) takes on the challenge of explaining the historic changes enveloping us all – and does so with a unique combination of engaging prose, gripping stories, insightful perspective and exceptional research.

Its author, Adam Pertman, is one of the most influential experts in his field and Adoption Nation has been called “the most important book ever written on the subject.”

Inspired by his Pulitzer-nominated series while a reporter with the Boston Globe, the first edition of Adoption Nation (2000) captured an important piece of U.S. history and was a game-changer for child welfare professionals, policy-makers, and members of what Pertman calls “the extended family of adoption” (adopted individuals, birth and adoptive relatives).

The new, fully revised edition updates the “adoption revolution” with all of its joys and disappointments, its personal and policy issues, its complexities and controversies.

“There’s no exaggerating how much has occurred over the last decade – from the adoptive mother who recently ‘returned’ her son to Russia, to the children orphaned by the earthquake in Haiti; from the ongoing debate over transracial adoptions, to the still-unregulated Wild West of adoption on the Internet; from the decline in secrecy and shame in adoption, to the explosion of reunions between adopted people and their birth families; and from the precipitous drop in international adoptions to the soaring rise in adoptions of boys and girls from foster care, including by growing numbers of gay and lesbian parents,” said Pertman. “When I looked at the landscape, I felt compelled to do a thorough rewrite of the stories, of the research and of the phenomenon itself.”

More comprehensive, more up-to-date, more moving – and more useful – than any other book on the subject, the new edition of Adoption Nation is an invaluable resource for prospective and current parents and their children. And it is a passionate call-to-arms for equality and social justice, as well as a unique tool for educators, policymakers and professionals.

About the Author

ADAM PERTMAN is the Executive Director of the Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute, the pre-eminent research, policy and education organization in its field. A highly sought-after speaker, Pertman has delivered hundreds of keynotes, trainings and other presentations internationally, and is the recipient of many awards for his work. He is the Associate Editor of Adoption Quarterly and has contributed to numerous publications on family issues. Pertman is widely quoted by journalists and has appeared as a guest on “Oprah,” “Today,” “The View,” “Nightline,” among other national programs. Before embarking on his current career, Pertman was a senior journalist with The Boston Globe for over two decades. He is a member of the Council on Contemporary Families, the editorial advisory board of Adoptive Families magazine, the National Adoption Advisory Committee of the Child Welfare League of America and the Advisory Board of Orphans International, among others. He lives in Massachusetts with his wife and their two children. Learn more at www.adampertman.com.   

My Take on the Book

I can see how this book would be a great book for anyone considering adoption to expand their own family. The book itself is filled with great resources and ideas and is so easy to read and follow. Though I am not an adoptive parent, I know a number of people that are and know all of the hoops and the bureaucracy they had to deal with in the process of becoming a family.  You always hear of all of the children that are out there that need families, but I always have found it sad to hear how hard it is for would-be parents to actually become parents. 

What I liked about this book was that was full of amazing honesty and passion. The author brings to the page excellent writing as well personal experiences with adoption that make the reader simply want to read more and learn more about all of the things that surround issues regarding adoption and the steps that they will be going through as they go through the adoption process. 

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